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古今圖書整合246\n戚屬部匯考\n爾雅\n釋親\n姊妹之夫為甥\n注\n體敵故更相為甥甥生也\n又\n婦之黨為婚兄弟婿之黨為姻兄弟\n注\n古者皆謂婚姻為兄弟\n漢劉熙釋名\n釋親屬\n親襯也言相隱襯也\n屬續也恩相連續也\n又\n姊妹互相謂夫曰私言於其夫兄弟之中此人與己\n姊妹有恩私也\n戚屬部總論\n袁氏世範\n睦親篇\n房族親戚鄰居其貧者才有所闕必請假焉雖米鹽\n酒醋計錢不多然朝夕頻頻令人厭煩如假借衣服\n器用既為損汙又因以質錢借之者歷歷在心日望\n其償其借者非惟不償又行行常自若且語人曰我\n未嘗纖毫假貸於他此言一達豈不招怨怒\n一應親戚故舊有所假貸不若隨力給與之言借則\n我望其還不免有所索索之既頻而負償冤主反怒\n曰我欲償之以其不當頻索則姑已之方其不索則\n又曰彼不下氣問我我何為而強還之故索亦不償\n不索亦不償終於交結怨而後已蓋貧人之假貸初\n無肯償之意縱有肯償之意亦何由得償或假貸作\n經營又多以命窮計拙而折閱方其始借之時禮甚\n恭言甚遜其感恩之心可指日以為誓至他日責償\n之時恨不以兵刃相加凡親戚故舊因財成怨者多\n矣俗謂不孝怨父母欠債怨財主不若念其貧隨吾\n力之厚薄舉以與之則我無責償之念彼亦無怨於\n我\n人之議親多要因親及親以示不相忘此最風俗好\n處然其間婦女無遠識多因相熟而相簡至於相忽\n遂至於相爭而不和反不若素不相識而驟議親者\n故凡因親議親最不可托熟闕其禮文又不可忘其\n本意極於責備則兩家周致無他患矣故有侄女嫁\n於姑家獨為姑氏所惡甥女嫁於舅家獨為舅妻所\n惡姨女嫁於姨家獨為姨氏所惡皆由玩易於其初\n禮薄而怨生又有不審於其初之過者\n人之姑姨姊妹及親戚婦人年老而子孫不肖不能\n供養者不可不收養然又須關防恐其身故之後其\n不肖子孫卻妄經官司稱其人因飢寒而死或稱其\n人有遺下囊篋之物官中受其牒必為追證不免有\n擾須於生前令白之於眾質之於官稱身外無餘物\n則免他患大抵要為高義之事須令無後患\n處己篇\n親戚故舊人情厚密之時不可盡以密私之事語之\n恐一旦失歡則前日所言皆他人所憑以為爭訟之\n資至有失歡之時不可盡以切實之語加之恐忿氣\n既平之後或與之通好結親則前言可愧大抵忿怒\n之際最不可指其隱諱之事而暴其父祖之惡吾之\n一時怒氣所激必欲指其切實而言之不知彼之怨\n恨深入骨髓古人謂傷人之言深於矛戟是也俗亦\n謂打人莫打膝道人莫道實\n親戚故舊因言語而失歡者未必其言語之傷人多\n是顏色辭氣暴厲能激人之怒且如諫人之短語雖\n切直而能溫顏下氣縱不見聽亦未必怒若平常言\n語無傷人處而詞色俱厲縱不見怒亦須懷疑古人\n謂怒於室者色於市方其有怒與他人言必不卑遜\n他人不知所自安得不怪故盛怒之際與人言話尢\n當自警前輩有言誡酒後語忌食時嗔忍難耐事順\n自強人常能持此最得便宜\n治家篇\n親賓相訪不可多虐以酒或被酒夜臥須令人照管\n往時括蒼有困客以酒且慮其不告而去於是臥於\n空舍而鑰其門酒渴索漿不得則取花瓶水飲之次\n日啟關而客死矣其家訟於官郡守汪懷忠究其一\n時舍中所有之物雲有花瓶浸旱蓮花試以旱蓮花\n浸瓶中取罪當死者試之驗乃釋之又有置水於案\n而不掩覆屋有伏□遺毒於水客飲而死者凡事不\n可不謹如此\n戚屬部紀事\n左傳衛惠公之即位也少齊人使昭伯烝於宣姜生\n齊子戴公文公宋桓夫人許穆夫人文公為衛之多\n患也先適齊及敗宋桓公逆諸河宵濟衛之遺民男\n女七百有三十人益之以共滕之民為五千人立戴\n公以廬於曹\n鄅人藉稻邾人襲鄅鄅人將閉門邾人羊羅攝其首\n焉遂入之盡俘以歸鄅子曰餘無歸矣從孥於邾邾\n莊公反鄅夫人而舍其女鄅夫人宋向戍之女也故\n向寧請師宋公伐邾圍蟲取之乃盡歸鄅俘\n注\n寧向\n戍子也\n戰國策燕王噲既立蘇秦死於齊蘇秦之在燕也與\n其相子之為婚而蘇代與子之交及蘇秦死而齊宣\n王複用蘇代燕噲三年與楚三晉攻秦不勝而還子\n之相燕貴重主斷蘇代為齊使於燕燕王問之曰齊\n宣王何如對曰必不霸燕王曰何也對曰不信其臣\n蘇代欲以激燕王以厚任子之也於是燕王大信子\n之子之因遺蘇代百金聽其所使\n呂氏春秋長攻篇趙簡子病召太子而告之曰我死\n已葬服衰而上夏屋之山以望太子敬諾簡子死已\n葬服衰召大臣而告之曰願登夏屋以望大臣皆諫\n曰登夏屋以望是遊也服衰以遊不可襄子曰此先\n君之命也寡人弗敢廢群臣敬諾襄子上於夏屋以\n望代俗其樂甚美於是襄子曰先君必以此教之也\n及歸慮所以取代乃先善之代君好色請以其弟□\n妻之代君許諾弟□已往所以善代者乃萬故馬郡\n宜馬代君以善馬奉襄子襄子謁於代君而請觴之\n馬郡儘先令舞者置兵其羽中數百人先具大金斗\n代君至酒酣反斗而擊之一成腦塗地舞者操兵以\n鬥盡殺其從者因以代君之車迎其妻其妻遙聞之\n狀磨笄以自刺故趙氏至今有刺笄之證與反斗之\n號\n漢書王商傳商字子威元帝時至右將軍光祿大夫\n是時定陶共王愛幸幾代太子商為外戚重臣輔政\n擁佑太子頗有力焉\n後漢書馬援傳援兄子婿王盤子石王莽從兄平阿\n侯仁之子也莽敗盤擁富貲居故國為人尚氣節而\n愛士好施有名江淮間後遊京師與衛尉陰興大司\n空朱浮齊王章共相友善援謂姊子曹訓曰王氏廢\n姓也子石當屏居自守而反遊京師長者用氣自行\n多所陵折其敗必也後歲餘盤果與司隸校尉蘇鄴\n丁鴻事相連坐死洛陽獄而盤子肅復出入北宮及\n王侯邸第援謂司馬呂種曰建武之元名為天下重\n開自今以往海內日當安耳但憂國家諸子並壯而\n舊防末立若多通賓客則大獄起矣卿曹戒慎之及\n郭後薨有上書者以為肅等受誅之家客因事生亂\n慮致貫高任章之變帝怒乃下郡縣收捕諸王賓客\n更相牽引死者以千數呂種亦豫其禍臨命嘆曰馬\n將軍誠神人也\n袁紹傳注謝承書曰胡毋班王匡之妹夫匡受紹旨\n收班繫獄欲殺以徇軍班與匡書略曰足下拘僕於\n獄欲以釁鼓此何悖暴無道之甚者也僕與董卓何\n親戚義豈同惡足下張虎狼之口吐長蛇之毒恚卓\n遷怒何其酷哉死者人之所難然恥為狂夫所害若\n亡者有靈當訴足下於皇天夫婚姻者禍福之幾今\n日著矣曩為一體今為血讎亡人二女則君之甥身\n沒之後慎勿令臨僕屍骸匡得書抱班二子哭班遂\n死於獄\n三國志文德郭皇后傳皇后外親劉斐與他國為婚\n後聞之敕曰諸親戚嫁娶自當與鄉里門戶匹敵者\n不得因勢強與他方人婚也後姊子孟武還鄉里求\n小妻後止之遂敕諸家曰今世婦女少當配將士不\n得因緣取以為妾也宜各自慎無為罰首\n麋竺傳竺字子仲東海胊人也祖世貨殖僮客萬人\n貲產巨億後徐州牧陶謙闢為別駕從事謙卒竺奉\n謙遺命迎先主於小沛建安元年呂布乘先主之出\n拒袁術襲下邳虜先主妻子先主轉軍廣陵海西竺\n於是進妹於先主為夫人奴客二千金銀貨幣以助\n軍資於時困匱賴此復振曹公表竺領嬴郡太守\n呂蒙傳","is_preview":true,"preview_page_limit":10}