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姑媳部匯考\n## 爾雅\n## 釋親\n婦稱夫之父曰舅夫之母曰姑姑舅在則曰君舅君\n姑沒則曰先舅先姑\n注\n國語曰吾聞之先姑\n謂夫之庶母為少姑\n又\n子之妻為婦長婦為嫡婦眾婦為庶婦\n漢班固白虎通\n三綱六紀\n謂之舅姑何舅者舊也姑者故也舊故之者老人之\n稱也\n又\n稱夫之父母謂之舅姑何尊如父而非父者舅也親\n如母而非母者姑也故稱夫之父母為舅姑也\n## 劉熙釋名\n釋親屬\n夫之父曰舅舅久也久老稱也\n夫之母曰姑亦言故也\n## 姑媳部總論\n## 禮記\n## 檀弓\n婦人不飾不見舅姑\n郊特牲\n厥明婦盥饋舅姑卒食婦餕餘私之也舅姑降自西\n階婦降自阼階授之室也\n## 陳\n注\n厥明□禮之明日也盥饋盥潔而饋食也\n大\n全\n嚴\n陵方氏曰盥所以致其潔饋所以致其養以舅姑\n之尊而降自賓階以婦之卑而降自主人之階者\n示授之室而為之主男以女為室故以室主之\n內則\n婦事舅姑如事父母雞初鳴鹹盥漱櫛縰笄總衣紳\n## 陳\n注\n笄今之簪也衣紳元端綃衣之上加紳帶士妻\n之服也\n大\n全\n朱子曰婦人不冠則所謂髻笄即為固\n髻之用亦名為簪而非如二弁之簪矣\n左佩紛帨刀礪小觿金燧右佩箴管線纊施縏□大\n觿木燧衿纓綦屨以適父母舅姑之所\n## 陳\n注\n箴管箴在管中也縏□皆囊屬施縏□者為貯\n箴線纊也衿結也纓香囊也\n大\n全\n長樂陳氏曰男女\n事父母婦事舅姑皆有纓以佩容臭則與女子許\n嫁之纓不同鄭氏曰婦人有纓示有系屬誤矣\n何則許嫁已纓將嫁無所復施既嫁夫說之矣無\n所複用則事舅姑之衿纓非許嫁之纓也\n及所下氣怡聲問衣燠寒疾痛□癢而敬抑搔之出\n入則或先或後而敬扶持之進盥少者奉盤長者奉\n水請沃盥盥卒授巾問所欲而敬進之柔色以溫之\n## 陳\n注\n□疥也抑按搔摩也溫承藉之義謂以柔順之\n色承藉尊者之意若藻藉之承玉然\n饘酏酒醲芼羹菽麥蕡稻黍粱秫唯所欲\n## 陳\n注\n饘厚粥酏薄粥也芼羹以菜雜肉為羹也蕡大\n麻子\n棗慄飴蜜以甘之菫荁枌榆免薧滫瀡以滑之脂膏\n以膏之父母舅姑必嘗之而後退\n## 陳\n注\n飴餳也菫菜名荁似菫而葉大榆之白者名枌\n免新鮮者薧幹陳者言菫荁枌榆四物或用新或\n用舊也滫說文久泔也瀡滑也滫瀡滫之滑者也\n凝者為脂釋者為膏甘之滑之膏之皆謂調和飲\n食之味也此篇所記飲食珍羞諸物古今異制風\n土異宜不能盡曉然亦可見古人察物之精用物\n之詳也\n又\n父母舅姑將坐奉席請何鄉將衽長者奉席請何趾\n少者執□與坐御者舉幾斂席與簟縣衾篋枕斂簟\n而襡之\n## 陳\n注\n將坐旦起時也奉坐席而鋪者必問何向衽臥\n席也將衽謂更臥處也長者奉此臥席而鋪必問\n足向何所□說文雲安身之幾坐非今之臥□也\n將坐之時少者執此□以與之坐侍御舉幾進之\n使之憑以為安臥必簟在席上旦起則斂之而簟\n又以襡韜之者以親身恐穢汙也衾則束而懸之\n枕則貯於篋也\n大\n全\n長樂劉氏曰侍父母舅姑行遊\n於所至其將至也則長者奉席而前請欲何向也\n將憩而臥於他所則長者奉席而前請衽欲何趾\n也不敢斥言其首敬之至也坐臥所以安老而優\n尊也而席為之主群子婦不敢專必讓於長者上\n下之分禮宜然也謂坐之將起寢之將興也几席\n之徹衾枕之斂則賤者屍之不必子婦也\n父母舅姑之衣衾簟席枕幾不傳杖屨祗敬之勿敢\n近敦牟□非餕莫敢用與恆飲食非餕莫之敢飲\n食\n## 陳\n注\n傳移也謂此數者每日置之有常處子與婦不\n得輒移置他所也近謂挨逼之也敦與牟皆盛黍\n稷之器牟讀為堥土釜也此器則木為之象土釜\n之形耳□酒器盛水漿之器此四器皆尊者所\n用子與婦非餕其餘無敢用此器也與及也及尊\n者所常食飲之物子與婦非餕餘不敢擅飲食之\n也\n大\n全\n慶源輔氏曰凡此所以養其孝心也孝人心\n之所固有後世禮教不明日就銷鑠有不自知者\n矣若夫動容周旋中禮者則又成德者之事也\n父母在朝夕恆食子婦佐餕既食恆餕父沒母存冢\n子御食群子婦佐餕如初旨甘柔滑孺子餕\n## 陳\n注\n佐餕者勸勉之使食而後餕其餘也既食恆餕\n者盡食其常食之餘也御食侍母食也如初如父\n在時\n大\n全\n山陰陸氏曰謂之恆餕則著以其美者孺\n子餕故也言群子婦佐餕不言冢婦不預也　慶\n源輔氏曰父沒母存食則獨矣恐母心之傷也故\n冢子御食焉御侍也言御至矣群子婦佐餕如初\n然後可以至於無窮旨甘柔滑孺子餕者所以慈\n幼也養老慈幼於是為至\n在父母舅姑之所有命之應唯敬對進退周旋慎齊\n升降出入揖遊不敢噦噫嚏咳欠伸跛倚睇視不敢\n唾洟\n## 陳\n注\n應之辭唯為恭噦嘔逆之聲也莊子大塊噫氣\n詩願言則嚏咳嗽聲也氣乏則欠體疲則伸偏任\n為跛依物為倚睇視傾視也洟自鼻出者\n寒不敢襲癢不敢搔不有敬事不敢袒裼不涉不撅\n衣衾不見裡\n## 陳\n注\n襲重衣也袒與裼皆禮之敬故非敬事不袒裼\n也不因涉水則不揭裳不見裡為其可穢\n父母唾洟不見冠帶垢和灰請漱衣裳垢和灰請澣\n衣裳綻裂紉箴請補綴\n## 陳\n注\n唾洟不見謂即刷除之不使見示於人也漱澣\n皆洗濯之事和灰如今人用灰湯也以線貫箴為\n紉\n又\n子婦孝者敬者父母舅姑之命勿逆勿怠\n## 陳\n注\n子而孝父母必愛之婦而敬舅姑必愛之然猶\n恐其恃愛而於命或有所違也故以勿逆勿怠為\n戒\n大\n全\n東萊呂氏曰既孝敬矣何必戒其逆怠蓋孝\n敬之人事親至於與親相忘則慢心易生恐或至\n於逆怠故在所戒\n若飲食之雖不耆必□而待加之衣服雖不欲必服\n而待\n## 陳\n注\n□而待服而待皆謂俟尊者察其不耆不欲而\n改命之則或置之或藏去乃敢如己意也金華應\n氏曰味偶不甘而必□衣偶不稱而必服徐而待\n之則親知其果非所安而不可強也\n加之事人代之己雖弗欲姑與之而姑使之而後復\n之\n## 陳\n注\n尊者任之以事而己既為之矣或念其勞又使\n他人代為己意雖不以為勞而不欲其代然必順\n尊者之意而姑與之若慮其為之不如己意姑教\n使之及其果不能而後己復為之也\n大\n全\n慶源輔氏\n曰既加之事又使人代之己雖不欲人代己然不\n可不順父母之命故姑與之而姑使之而後復之\n者終以身親之也　金華應氏曰加己以事而又\n代之以人亦姑與而姑使之待夫人之果不克勝\n而後復之亦不敢辭其難也是非故為矯情蓋委\n曲以行其意雖至親之間亦有不容以直遂者必\n如是而後無所拂也\n子婦有勤勞之事雖甚愛之姑縱之而寧數休之\n## 陳\n注\n謂雖甚愛此子婦而不忍其勞然必且縱使為\n之而寧數數休息之必使終竟其事而後已不可\n以姑息為愛而使之不事事也\n子婦未孝未敬勿庸疾怨姑教之若不可教而後怒\n之不可怒子放婦出而不表禮焉\n## 陳\n注\n庸用也怒之譴責之也不可怒謂雖譴責之而\n不改也雖放逐其子出棄其婦而不表明其失禮\n之罪示不終絕之也\n大\n全\n慶源輔氏曰子曰愛之能\n勿勞乎勤勞之事若遽止之是姑息之愛也子婦\n未孝未敬勿庸疾怨是存父母之心也子婦放逐\n不得已也不表禮焉是猶有不忍之心也　東萊\n呂氏曰明言其惡而出之謂表父母愛子之心舅\n姑待婦之禮雖彼有過猶欲遮護故放出而不明\n言其所以過　金華應氏曰自子婦孝者敬者而\n下勉子婦之孝於父母舅姑也自子婦有勤勞之\n事而下勉父","is_preview":true,"preview_page_limit":10}