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古今圖書整合235\n妯娌部總論\n禮記\n檀弓\n子思之哭嫂也為位婦人倡踴\n陳\n注\n馬氏曰婦人倡踴以婦人有相為娣姒之義而\n不敢以己之無服先之也\n內則\n舅沒則姑老冢婦所祭賓客每事必請於姑介婦請\n於冢婦\n陳\n注\n老謂傳家事於長婦也然長婦猶不敢專行故\n祭祀賓客之事必稟問焉介婦眾婦也\n舅姑使冢婦毋怠不友無禮於介婦\n陳\n注\n石樑王氏曰友謂當作敢者是劉氏曰使以事\n使之也毋禁止辭不友者不愛也無禮者不敬也\n言舅姑以事命冢婦則冢婦當自任其勞不可怠\n於勞而怨介婦不助己遂不愛敬之也\n舅姑若使介婦毋敢敵耦於冢婦\n注\n劉氏曰敵耦者欲求分任均勞之意言舅姑若\n以事使介婦為之則介婦亦當自任其勞不可謂\n己與冢婦為敵耦欲求均配其勞也\n不敢並行不敢並命不敢並坐\n陳\n注\n又言介婦之與冢婦分有尊卑非惟任事毋敢\n敵耦亦且不敢比肩而行不敢並受命於尊者不\n敢並出命於卑者蓋介婦當請命於冢婦也坐次\n亦必異列\n儀禮\n喪服\n夫之姑姊妹娣姒婦報\n注\n夫之姑姊妹不殊在室及嫁者因恩輕略從降\n疏\n釋曰夫之姑姊妹夫為之期妻降一等出嫁小\n功因恩疏略從降故在室及嫁同小功若此釋恐\n謂未當報然文不為娣姒設以其娣姒婦兩見更\n相為服自明何言報也既報字不為娣姒其報於\n娣姒上者以其於夫之兄弟使之遠別故無名使\n不相為服要娣姒婦相為服亦因夫而有故娣姒\n婦下雲報使娣姒上蒙夫字以冠之也\n傳曰娣姒婦者弟長也何以小功也以為相與居室\n中則生小功之親焉\n注\n娣姒婦者兄弟之妻相名也長婦謂婦為娣\n婦娣婦謂長婦為姒婦\n疏\n釋曰傳雲娣姒婦者弟\n長也者此二字皆以女為形以弟為聲則據二婦\n互稱謂年小者為娣故云娣弟是其年幼也年大\n者為姒故云姒長是其年長也假令弟妻年大稱\n之曰姒兄妻年小稱之曰娣是以左氏傳穆姜是\n宣公夫人大婦也聲伯之母不聘穆姜雲吾不以\n妾為姒是據二婦年大小為娣姒不據夫年為小\n大之事也\n北齊顏氏家訓\n兄弟篇\n夫有人民而後有夫婦有夫婦而後有父子有父子\n而後有兄弟一家之親此三而已矣自茲以往至於\n九族皆本於三親焉故於人倫為重者也不可不篤\n兄弟者分形連氣之人也方其幼也父母左提右挈\n前襟後裾食則同案衣則傳服學則連業遊則共方\n雖有悖亂之人不能不相愛也及其壯也各妻其妻\n各子其子雖有篤厚之人不能不少衰也娣姒之比\n兄弟則疏薄矣今使疏薄之人而節量親厚之恩猶\n方底而圓蓋必不合矣唯友悌深至不為傍人之所\n移者免夫\n娣姒者多爭之地也使骨肉居之亦不若各歸四海\n感霜露而相思佇日月之相望也況以行路之人處\n多爭之地能無間者鮮矣所以然者以其當公務而\n執私情處重責而懷薄義也若能恕己而行換子而\n撫則此患不生矣\n宋袁氏世範\n睦親\n人家不和多因婦女以言激怒其夫及同氣蓋婦女\n所見不廣不遠不公不平又其所謂舅姑伯叔妯娌\n皆假合強為之稱呼非自然天屬故輕於割恩易於\n修怨非丈夫有遠識則為其役而不自覺一家之中\n乖變生矣於是有親兄弟子侄隔屋連牆至死不相\n往來者有無子而不肯以猶子為後有多子而不以\n與其兄弟者有不恤兄弟之貧養親必欲如一寧棄\n親而不顧者有不恤兄弟之貧葬親必欲均費寧留\n喪而不葬者其事多端不可概述亦嘗見有遠識之\n人知婦女之不可諫誨而外與兄弟相愛常不失歡\n私救其所急私賙其所乏不使婦女知之彼兄弟之\n貧者雖深怨其婦女而重愛其兄弟至於當分析之\n際不敢以貧故而貪愛其兄弟之財產者蓋由見識\n高遠之人不聽婦女之言而先施之厚因以得兄弟\n之心也\n婦女之易生言語者又多出於婢妾之間鬥婢妾愚\n賤尤無見識以言他人之短失為忠於主母若婦女\n有見識能一切勿聽則虛之言不復敢進若聽之\n信之從而愛之則必再言之又言之使主母與人遂\n成深讎為婢妾者方洋洋得志非特婢妾為然僕隸\n亦多如此若主翁聽信則房族親戚故舊皆大失歡\n而善良之僕佃皆翻致誅責矣有識之人自宜觸類\n醒悟\n妯娌部藝文\n為諸婦祭庾新婦文　　　　　晉潘岳\n潛形幽櫬寧神舊宇室虛風生□塵帷舉自我不見\n載離寒暑雖則乖隔哀亦時敘啟殯今夕祖行明朝\n雨絕華庭埃滅大宵儷執箕偕奉夕朝仿□未行\n顧瞻弗獲伏膺飲淚感今懷昔懷昔伊何祁祁娣姒\n感今伊何冥冥吾子形未廢目音猶在耳\n訓弟婦文　　　　　　　　　宋柳開\n皇考治家孝且嚴旦望弟婦等拜堂下畢即上手低\n面聽我皇考訓誡曰人家兄弟無不義者盡因娶婦\n入門異姓相聚爭長競短漸漬日聞偏愛私藏以致\n背戾分門割戶患若賊讎皆汝婦人所作男子剛腸\n者幾人能不為婦人言所惑吾見多矣若等寧有是\n耶退則惴惴不敢出一語為不孝事開輩抵此賴之\n得全其家雲\n妯娌部匯考\n爾雅\n釋親\n長婦謂稚婦為娣婦娣婦謂長婦為姒婦\n注\n今相呼先後或雲妯娌\n疏\n廣雅雲娣姒妯娌姒\n先後也人多疑娣姒之名皆以為兄妻呼弟妻為\n娣弟妻呼兄妻為姒因即惑於斯文不知何以為\n說今謂母婦之號隨夫尊卑娣姒之名從身長幼\n以其俱來夫族其夫班秩既同尊卑無以相加遂\n從身之少長喪服小功章曰娣姒婦報傳曰娣姒\n婦者弟長也以弟長解娣姒言娣是弟姒是長也\n公羊傳亦云娣者何弟也是其以弟解娣自然以\n長解姒長謂身之年長非夫之年長也此雲長婦\n謂稚婦為娣婦娣婦謂長婦為姒婦者止言婦之\n長稚不言夫之大小左傳成公十一年穆姜謂聲\n伯之母為姒昭公八年傳叔向之嫂謂叔向之妻\n為姒二者皆呼夫弟之妻為姒豈計夫之長幼乎\n上雲女子同出謂先生為姒後生為娣郭雲同出\n謂俱嫁事一夫也事一夫者以己生先後為娣姒\n則知娣姒以己之年非夫之年也故賈逵鄭元及\n杜預皆雲兄弟之妻相謂為姒言兩人相謂長者\n為姒知娣姒之名不計夫之長幼也\n漢揚雄方言\n雜釋\n築娌匹也\n注\n今關西兄弟婦呼為築娌度六反廣雅作妯\n娌耦也\n劉熙釋名\n釋親屬\n少婦謂長婦曰姒言其先來己所當法似也\n長婦謂少婦曰娣娣弟也己後來也或曰先後以來\n先後之第也\n青徐人謂長婦曰稙長禾苗先生曰稙取名於此也\n荊豫人謂長婦曰熟熟祝也祝始也\n魏張揖博雅\n釋親\n娣社妯娌娣姒先後也\n潛確類書\n娣姒\n師古曰兄弟之妻古謂之娣姒今關中俗呼為先後\n吳楚俗呼為妯娌\n妯娌部紀事\n左傳成十一年聲伯之母不聘穆姜曰吾不以妾為\n姒生聲伯而出之\n昭二十八年叔向欲娶於申公巫臣氏其母曰夫有\n尤物足以移人苟非德義則必有禍叔向懼不敢取\n平公強使娶之生伯石伯石始生子容之母走謁諸\n姑曰長叔姒生男姑視之及堂聞其聲而還曰是豺\n狼之聲也狼子野心非是莫喪羊舌氏矣遂弗視\n後漢書繆彤傳彤字豫公汝南召陵人也少孤兄弟\n四人皆同財業及各娶妻諸婦遂求分異又數有鬥\n爭之言彤深懷憤嘆乃掩戶自撾曰繆彤汝修身謹\n行學聖人之法將以齊整風俗奈何不能正其家乎\n弟及諸婦聞之悉叩頭謝罪遂更為敦睦之行\n晉書王祥傳祥弟覽母朱遇祥無道覽","is_preview":true,"preview_page_limit":10}